Welcome to Queernundrum

~   A conundrum focused on queer topics   ~

We give a voice to the queer community...to build understanding and connection to our community  through fun and hard questions; and provide a platform for you to share your queernundrums.


LGBTQ Identity and labels

Queer and Overweight

This week we have a special guest join us! We dive into the queernundrum of  gender as a social construct, assigning gender at birth - gender labels, the difference between  Sexual orientation, sexual identity, and gender. THEN we dive into the parallels we share with the Queen of Halloween, Elvira’s coming out story.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Queer and Overweight

Queer and Overweight

This week we follow our own rabbit hole and stray from the path. In this weeks episode we discuss the struggle of being LGBTQ+ and getting the healthcare. It seems being wealthy male and white gets you a lot more than wealth and gay, a woman, lesbian, transgender… where will this take us? Listen and then join the convo on social. Stick around and check out our QueerQorner: LGBTQ News and a slice of Gary’s pop culture Grace & Franky.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Atypical & Sexuality

Atypical & Sexuality

This week we dive into the queernundrum of Human sexuality, gender and sexual diversity - sexuality and gender are not the same! This convo rolls into the TV show Atypical - a heartfelt, coming-or-age comedy that follows Sam, a teenager on the autism spectrum, who has decided he is ready for romance. We then wrap up with LGBTQ News and a slice of Gary’s Journey.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Batwoman Queer

Batwoman Queer

This week we dive into our queernerdrum to explore the world of Batwoman. We open with a bit of history that takes us into the CW show currently airing on CW. Check it our and stay for the news and pop culture rants. 

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Words of a Mother | Loving Trans Non-bianary Child

Words of a Mother | Loving Trans Non-bianary Child

This week we talk with a mother of a transgender human; the challenges and rewards they faced as a family and how their community changed. For the heck of it we ask about their hopes for society and their thoughts on Caitlyn Jenner and J K Rowling.  

In our QueerQorner we talk about OnlyFans policy change and how that didn't actually change, whats new with the HRC and changes to college applications; Plus Gary share more about this weight loss journey and inappropriate pics on social media. 

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Ezra Miller

Ezra Miller super hero

This week we talk about Ezra Miller; from high school drop-out to Hollywood, from a Beethoven vision to controversy. We cover it all here followed by LGBTQ News and Pop-Culture.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Mahu 3rd Gender

Best B!tches Catch Up

Our Q:  What is 3rd Gender

This week we talk about the Hawaiian Mahu people and culture and we attempt to dip our toes into the First Nation’s history of 3rd gender and beyond. We can’t wait to share with all of you!

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Holly Greystone

Best B!tches Catch Up

Our Q:  US! This week we catch up; from honeymoon to mountain tops and lot of shenanigans. 

Welcome to Queernundrum, where we explore everything queer in order to learn more about our queer community. What is queer? everything LGBTQAI+ We will take our questions and yours, together we will discover the history of our community from: Hollywood to civil rights and everything in between.


If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 26 -  BTS and KPOP | Queer?

BTS KPOP

BTS & KPOP queer?

Our Q:  KPOP - Queer? Queer and women’s rights advocates?

Welcome to Queernundrum, where we explore everything queer in order to learn more about our queer community. What is queer? everything LGBTQAI+ We will take our questions and yours, together we will discover the history of our community from: Hollywood to civil rights and everything in between.

This week we dive into and explore the conversation KPOP and how cool BTS is!

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 25 -  Elliot Page | Live Their Truth

Elliot Page living their truth

Elliot Page | Live Their Truth

Our Q:  Elliot Page finally living their truth

This week we dive into and explore the conversation about Elliot Page - their transition, 8-pack, Oprah interview, marriage and so much more. What does it mean to "transition"?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 24 -  Queer Baiting Queer Coding

Queer Baiting Queer Coding

Queer Baiting Queer Coding

Our Q:  What is Queer Baiting and Queer Coding?

This week we dive into what queer coding is and how queer baiting is being used in media today to “bait” us into buying products or investing time into TV/movies. We explore the pros and cons and its impact on our queer community. We discuss how JK Rowling Queer Baited, why Billie Eilish is being accused of queer baiting, how queer coding has locked the Sherlock holes boys together forever and Xena Warrior princess - gotta love those women.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 23 -  Binden & Pride

Binden and pride

Binden and LGBTQ

Our Q:  What is Making LGBTQAI+ history and Where Did We Get The Pride Flag?

This week we take a look at the birth of the Pride flag and what cool things the Biden administration is doing to support our LGBTQA!+ community. PLUS we revamped our Queer Qorner - LGBT News with Holly and Pop-culture with Gary.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 22 -  Lets Talk About Sex | Is That Weird?

Listen to our Pod on Supergirl and the coolness that is LBGTQ

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we diving into sex-talk with our friend Jessica Biles, a Sexpert! ... and this is just the beginning. 

Our Q:  Lets Talk About Sex | Is That Weird?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 21 -  Supergirl | Gurls Rule

Supergirl LBGTQ

Listen to our Pod on Supergirl and the coolness that is LBGTQ

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we diving into Nerdrundrum, that’s right! We are talking about the all queer representation of Supergirl, the TV that is sweeting the Saturn Awards. 

Our Q:  What’s queer and cool about Supergirl?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 20 -  Let THEM Play

Trans Rights Podcast

Trans Rights Podcast

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are tackling the latest GOP bs - the banding of transgender girls in sports, human rights and much more!!

Our Q:  What’s with all the anti-trans bills and toxic masculinity?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 19 -  Caitlin Jenner | Queer Traitor?

Caitlin Jenner


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are excited to discuss Caitlin Jenner’s anti-LGBTQ policies, support for Trump, Cruz and the Republican Party; who is largely against the LGBTQ community and so much more on this weeks episode.

Our Q:  Why is Caitlin Jenner in politics and anti-LGBTQ?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 18 -  Colton Underwood | The Queer Bachelor

Colton Underwood the Queer Bachelor


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are excited to discuss Colton Underwoods ‘coming out’ on Good Morning America; his struggle with his sexual identity, relationship with God and so much more on this weeks episode.

Our Q:  A true Queernundrum in Colton Underwood, the Queer Bachelor

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 17 -  Demi Lovato | Help People Live their Authentic Selves

Demi Lovato, Dancing with the devil, too queer queernundrum


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into what is ‘too queer’ about Demi Lovato, from Disney to near death to living her truth openly…maybe? Join the conversation on this weeks pod. 

Our Q: What’s ‘Too Queer’ About Demi Lovato?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Gay Catholic's and the lack of acceptance by the church


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into what is queer about the Qatholic Church, priest, nuns, congregation and more. We even share a bit more about us, come check this episode out and join us in conversation on any of our social media accounts.

Our Q: What’s Queer About The Qatholic Church

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 22 -  Lets Talk About Sex | Is That Weird?

Listen to our Pod on Supergirl and the coolness that is LBGTQ

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we diving into sex-talk with our friend Jessica Biles, a Sexpert! ... and this is just the beginning. 

Our Q:  Lets Talk About Sex | Is That Weird?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Listen to our Pod on Supergirl and the coolness that is LBGTQ

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we diving into sex-talk with our friend Jessica Biles, a Sexpert! ... and this is just the beginning. 

Our Q:  Lets Talk About Sex | Is That Weird?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 21 -  Supergirl | Gurls Rule

Supergirl LBGTQ

Listen to our Pod on Supergirl and the coolness that is LBGTQ

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we diving into Nerdrundrum, that’s right! We are talking about the all queer representation of Supergirl, the TV that is sweeting the Saturn Awards. 

Our Q:  What’s queer and cool about Supergirl?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 20 -  Let THEM Play

Trans Rights Podcast

Trans Rights Podcast

We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are tackling the latest GOP bs - the banding of transgender girls in sports, human rights and much more!!

Our Q:  What’s with all the anti-trans bills and toxic masculinity?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 19 -  Caitlin Jenner | Queer Traitor?

Caitlin Jenner


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are excited to discuss Caitlin Jenner’s anti-LGBTQ policies, support for Trump, Cruz and the Republican Party; who is largely against the LGBTQ community and so much more on this weeks episode.

Our Q:  Why is Caitlin Jenner in politics and anti-LGBTQ?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 18 -  Colton Underwood | The Queer Bachelor

Colton Underwood the Queer Bachelor


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we are excited to discuss Colton Underwoods ‘coming out’ on Good Morning America; his struggle with his sexual identity, relationship with God and so much more on this weeks episode.

Our Q:  A true Queernundrum in Colton Underwood, the Queer Bachelor

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com. OR connect with us on any of our social media platforms.

Episode 17 -  Demi Lovato | Help People Live their Authentic Selves

Demi Lovato, Dancing with the devil, too queer queernundrum


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into what is ‘too queer’ about Demi Lovato, from Disney to near death to living her truth openly…maybe? Join the conversation on this weeks pod. 

Our Q: What’s ‘Too Queer’ About Demi Lovato?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Gay Catholic's and the lack of acceptance by the church


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into what is queer about the Qatholic Church, priest, nuns, congregation and more. We even share a bit more about us, come check this episode out and join us in conversation on any of our social media accounts.

Our Q: What’s Queer About The Qatholic Church

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 15 -  JoJo Siwa | Comes out in true fashion

JoJo Siwa Disney Queernundrum


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into the internet sensation that is JoJo Siwa! Singer, author, actor, entrepreneur and more… all before she turns 18! YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram love her, check out this weeks episode to find out why.

Our Q: Who is Jojo and why do we love her? 

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 14 -  Queercore | One of our many subcultures of the LGBTQ+ community

queer core, queer subculture


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into Queercore history! We are excited to have our first guest bring this wonderful topic to all of you. Check out this cultural/social movement that is one of our many subcultures of the LGBTQ+ community.

Our Q: What is Queercore?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Transgender, women of stonewall, queernundrum


We continue to explore the queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into LGBTQ+ history! The women of Stonewall: Marsha P. Johnson, Zazu Nova, Jackie Hormona, Stormé DeLarverie and Sylvia Rivera (maybe?) Learn more on this weeks episode.

Our Q: Why did it take so long for the women of Stonewall to get credit for their activism?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 12 -  Billie Jean King |On and off the court

Billie Jean King On and off the court queernundrum


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into the world of Billie Jean King, 39 Grand Slams, publicly outted by a love affair, sued, winner of the Battle of The Sexes, recipient of the Presidential award and so much more on this weeks episode.  

Our Q: You Can Loss Everything IF OUTTED… Almost…

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 11 -  Dan Levy |We need and want more creators like Dan

Queernundrum of Dan Levy of Shitz Creek


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into the world of Dan Levy, specifically Schitt’s Creek and Emmy’s, the Golden Globes, the awesomeness the Levy’s

Our Q: We need and want more creators like Dan.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 10 - Teletubbies | Sexualizing Kid TV Shows 

queernundrum of Teletubbies


We continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community; this week we dive into the world of Teletubbies, specifically Tinky Winky and the global bs regarding sexual orientation of a fictional, non-binary children’s character. 

Our Q: Why do we human have to sexualize a children’s show?

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Episode 9 - RuPaul | “You're born naked & the rest is drag”

RuPaul Queernundrum

“You're born naked & the rest is drag”

As we continue to explore the queernundrums of the queer community we dive into the world of TV Host, continuing with RuPaul Andre Charles, aka RuPaul, is an American drag performer, actor, TV host, and recording artist. We dive into RuPaul’s conservationist statements and the fact that he and his husband sell fracking rights, and we discuss the queernundrum of transgendered individuals in drag. 

Our Q: What are the expectations and challenges LGBTQAI+ that TV Host face in dealing with networks and public opinion.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Queernundrum of Anderson  Cooper


As we continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we dive into the world of TV Host, continuing with Anderson Cooper! A Vanderbilt, actor, writer, journalist, father, and New York Times "the most prominent openly gay journalist on American television" 

Our Q: What are the expectations and challenges LGBTQAI+ that TV Host face in dealing with networks and public opinion.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

jk rowling queernundrum

JK Rowling's Queerundrum: accepting of gays but not transgender...

Our Queernundrum: JW Rowling - What the "F"!? you're cool with gay and lesbian but not transgender humans? Join us as we continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community. Today we dive into the world of Harry Potter and live of JK Rowling and her transphobic comments.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

rosie o'donnell, queer tv host

Queernundrum of queer TV Host

As we continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we dive into the world of TV Host, continuing with Rosie O’Donnell! Comedian, TV personality, activist, producer, and so much more! 

Our Q: What are the expectations and challenges LGBTQAI+ that TV Host face in dealing with networks and public opinion.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

ellen degeneres queernundrum, queer tv host

Queernundrum of queer TV Host

As we continue to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we dive into the world of TV Host, starting with Ellen! (What better way to get to know us!) Q: What are the expectations and challenges LGBTQAI+ that TV Host face in dealing with networks and public opinion.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Star Trek Discovery, Gay, Queer LBGTQ

Beautiful kiss between two beautiful men

As we begin to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we start with Star Trek. (What better way to get to know us!) Q: What was Star Trek Thinking when they explored queer topics. In today's episode we conclude the conversation with actual LGBTQAI+ representation! We discuss Discovery and all their beautiful characters and touch on the animated series Lower Decks.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Star Trek Voyager

As we begin to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we start with Star Trek. What was Star Trek Thinking when they explored queer topics. In today's episode we explore queer topics related to Enterprise and Voyager.

If you want to share your stories or questions please email us Queernundrum@queernundrum.com, that is a Queer Nun with a Drum dot com.

Star Trek Deep Space 9

As we begin to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we start with Star Trek. (What better way to get to know us!) Q: What was Star Trek Thinking when they explored queer topics. In today's episode we continue the conversation with a kiss, not just any kiss, but the kiss on Deep Space 9, in an episode called “Rejoined”, season 4 episode 5 where Jadzia Dax and Lenara Khan share a kiss and a pass.

Next Generation, star trek queernundrum

As we begin to explore the Queernundrums of the queer community we start with Star Trek. What was Star Trek Thinking when they explored queer topics. In today's episode we start with Next Generation "The Outcast" where Riker falls in love with a member of an androgynous (nonbinary) race which finds gender (binary) specificity unacceptable.

Meet Your Hosts

Holly Greystone

Holly is an expert in Project Management, Biology, Chemistry, Theatre and Acting to name a few.
She has worked with Pullman Civic Theater on numerous productions serving in almost every part of the process.
With degrees in Art, Biology/Chemistry, Business, and Project Management, she has years of work and volunteer experience in a large number of industries.
She is widely regarded as a passionate entrepreneur not afraid to voice her opinion and expertise.
Her abilities are evident in the success of Pullman Civic Theatre as she serves as the Board President.
As a member of the LGBTQAI+ community, she can help anyone exploring the queer community and help resolve any queernundrums they may have.

Gary thoren

Gary is an expert in Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Theatre, Television, and White-Trash Cooking.
He has spent years studying theatre and the human condition.
His life serves as a constant experience-generating machine as he continues to navigate the ins-and-outs of the queer community.
His writings on the gay life is widely respected and he has been featured with the improve group Rabble Without Applause.
His professionalism with his dedication to his community is evident in his involvement of inclusion and diversity through Sodexo, a hospitality company.
As a member of the LGBTQAI+ community, he can help anyone exploring the queer community and help resolve any queernundrums they may have.

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